I wasn’t suppose to hear this. But I did. It sealed the deal for me.

It was one of the reasons I had to finally leave my true love. My passion.

ICU nursing.

After many years as an ICU nurse, I sadly knew it was time to go.

I use to feel like I was purposeful. I use to think I was a dynamic part in saving lives in the ICU.

I lived and breathed ICU.

I was a charge nurse, a mentor, a preceptor. I attended the AACN meetings, I was the leader of the Shared Governance Committee, I was on the Rapid Response Team (RRT) and I obtained Level 4 RN which was the highest attribute you could earn as an ICU nurse.

But as the years passed, I watched patients with multi system organ failure come through our doors, usually the aged population, many with their own DNR/DNI papers and listen to the family members scream at us nurses and doctors: “Do everything.”

And unfortunately, the theory was that we had to honor the family members regardless of the legal DNR papers…. Because families can sue, dead people cannot.

And so we did.

We did “everything.”

The vigorous and fast CPR pounding on their brittle chest, hearing and feeling their ribs crack. The inhumanity and brutality I felt as we dishonored these poor souls.

But we were forced to do so.

The patients lay motionless on the ventilator, wrist restrained, turned and repositioned to prevent decubitus ulcers. Their vacant stare of what truly was their hell on earth.

Because this was not living.

This new manager had her masters degree. She had no ICU experience but apparently was a “good fit.”

She knew the “corporate commandments” and she knew them well.

She also rattled off reasons for why the budget was so important.

She slowly eliminated our care techs, secretaries and CNA’s, many times leaving us with skeletal staff.

And then came what I perceived as ageism.

Some of the older nurses with incredible experience were being put under the microscope, upper management second guessing us.

At first I didn’t comprehend what was going on until I overheard: “We can get two inexperienced young nurses for the price of one vintaged experienced nurse”.

It truly was a gasping moment for me.

Like how could any manager be ok with attempting to eliminate the experienced nurses?

But we soon learned that Corporate hospital America had sold their souls.

Not only are the nurses a “number” so are our patients.

Top CEO’s for “for- profit hospitals” can make yearly salaries into the millions even for non-profit hospitals. And their incentive pay and perks which add several millions.

My Grande finale was when we were told we would have a 3:1 assignment in ICU.

We were a high acuity ICU. 25 beds strong. Many patients were on ventilators and life saving IV drips like Nipride, Levophed, Vasopressin, add a central line and an arterial line, maybe a swan ganz line (PA or Pulmonary artery line), CT scans, and Code Cools and proning, ECMO, our duties were endless. And it would be 12-13 grueling hours non-stop without a break.

A 3:1 assignment was the end for me as I truly felt that if I did not protect my nursing license that I worked hard for… than nobody would protect it. Not even my ICU Nurse manager.

So I turned in my resignation.

I said good bye to my true love. ICU Nursing.

I could no longer bare to treat patients with haphazard nursing practice that was forced upon us by management.

I have those flashes of memories, the patients that were triumphs, the tragedies and sadness, the nurse camaraderie.

Memories to last me a lifetime.

The corporation. They may never know what we as nurses do relentlessly to save a life.

Would they ever look in the mirror and come to terms with greed becoming their god.

My prayer is to have a mandatory

safe nurse:patient ratio across our America.

Two for the price of one!!

5 thoughts on “ICU NURSE CAN YOU RELATE”

  1. “We is da State, Ju can’t lie to us”. These are comments from those skanky dirt bags at AZBN.
    When a person under investigation tells you “Ridenour” they are not giving “you” access to their personal information and “you” violate the LAW by getting the information without the consent of the RESPONDENT, “you” gonna PAY, and PAY good. You “ridiculous RIDENOUR” are a THIEF, an a LIAR.
    Ju is responsible for ju’s people’s Ridiculous Ridenour, those you currently employ, those for the past, & those you “might” employ in da future.
    “We is da State” OMG too hilarious. Like “McCain was a hero”, lol lol lol, that is the most hilarious statement I have ever heard, MCCAIN A HERO MY A$$.


    1. disgusting . that anyone would get involved with Jokey Ridenour , certainly over the years many have found out what a low life she really is . McCain (cindy just got some fake award , Just like Jokey did , at some awards banquet ) surely Wm nominated her or some druggie nurse who wants to keep her license . She is now being recognized for what the slime bucket really is !


  2. I cried a I read this. I can relate 100%. Thank you for your time working in the ICU. Im sure you saved many lives. Healthcare shouldnt be about money. It is a basic human right. You did the right thing quitting.


    1. Hard working nurses sacrificing their own time , their bodies, working through lunch, no time for bathroom breaks , working all night , going in on days off nurses with direct patient care , experience you can’t replace , yet some corrupt BON is busy in a building someone shuffling paper work , taking hours long lunches, catered in on state of az credit cards , making lying phones calls , lying to the nurse , building a pile of lies to destroy all this , putting patients at risk with inexperienced new grads taught by some social climber calling themselves ‘dr’ . Something very wrong here .


    2. The BON AGENCY , Run by a head henchman style prison guard JOKE RIDENOUR , who closely resembles many other AZ sociopathic , should never be in charge of anyone types ! The Agency is like the experiment at Standford Univ Stanford Prison Experiment”, where they hired some students on summer break and used them as guards and prisoners in an experimental prison simulation. Some of the students became sadistic guards and some of the prisoners suffered mental breakdowns within days. The situation became so abusive (freely admitted by Zimbardo) that the simulation was stopped after only a few days. The bd ‘investigators do become sadistic guards of the license, or that is their excuse, they are mental cases but still continue to carry out their over the top abuse .


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